Male Orgasms

Orgasm Denial That’s a Genuine Turn-On

Orgasm denial is a staple of domination practices in all of its many forms – tease and denial, tie and tease, or, if the parties engaged in orgasm denial wish to go so far, the spoiled ejaculation: orgasm denial through a release of ejaculate that stimulates no pleasure whatsoever. Tease and denial is the most popular offshoot of tie and tease orgasm denial techniques, and whether it’s used for hardcore domination, or less intense orgasm denial sessions that have the aim of culminating in an explosive orgasm, tease and denial is a tried and true technique for increasing the physical and psychological sensations of frustration and denial.

Tease and denial frequently involves the use of restraints to add a physical and psychological feeling of helplessness as an adjunct to the feelings brought on by orgasm denial. The person to be subjected to orgasm denial is restrained in equipment typically of the dominatrix’ choice, and they’ll be subjected to myriad forms of erotic stimulation which will be withdrawn before they can achieve the release of a climax. The most skilled practitioners of orgasm denial can bring their subject to the very pinnacle of release and back them down again over an entire evening. Or, if you’d just care to incorporate a mild form of tease and denial for an intense orgasmic experience for your partner, just bring the tension levels to heightened excitement and a plateau of orgasm denial a couple of times, then let them cut loose. However intense you find you enjoy your orgasm denial sessions, you’ll find a level of tease and denial play that’s comfortable and enticing without being too terribly wrenching.

If you’re thinking about engaging in tease and denial play for relatively mellow orgasm denial activities, start by thinking about the restraints involved. If you get rope, get something silken or made of a similar material that won’t chafe or cause friction burns on the person experiencing orgasm denial. If cuffs are more your speed for tease and denial play, consider cuffs that are padded or lined with fake fur. An increased comfort level for the person undergoing orgasm denial will make the release at the pinnacle of your tease and denial session that much more powerful.

Also consider what you can provide in the way of stimulation that won’t trigger a quick orgasm, thus facilitating orgasm denial for the length of time you and your partner have in mind. Light brushing, touching, and kissing is good for slowly building arousal, and by denying these stimuli, you’ll effectively get orgasm denial underway before your ready for your partner’s release in your tease and denial scenario.

Tease and denial play can be a fun adjunct to your ongoing sensual life. Orgasm denial isn’t purely for BDSM devotees—orgasm denial is for anyone who wants to bring some spicy thrills into their sensual lives. Talk with your lover and enjoy the world of tease and denial.